Thursday, May 17, 2012

The Reason Men Cheat


Stephanie B.
05/14/112
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The Reason Men Cheat

        In my opinion the reason men cheat is because they are assholes that think they can have any girl they want. They want to be with their girl but they want someone on the side too.  They think there are no consequences for their actions and some girls just stay there because they think he is going to change but he doesn’t. Some girls ask themselves why does this happen to me? They blame themselves because they think they are doing something wrong and the man tries to make them feel guilty so they won’t get in trouble. The men should think, “How are my kids going to feel about? “Or how is it going to affect them?” They’re going to ruin their relationships with their families for a booty call.  Approximately 40% of men seek sexual satisfaction outside their relationships, estimates Kat Hertlein, Ph.D., professor of human development at the University of Nevada - Las Vegas and a marriage and family therapist” (Why men cheat). This shows most men that cheat just wants a sexual relationship. The person they have that relationship with is not going to care about their family or if they’re going to ruin their relationship with the spouse. If the women that is the booty call starts to think its bad to do this the man just tells her “its okay me and my spouse don’t do anything together anymore any ways”. Just because they don’t do anything doesn’t make it right to cheat on them. Some men cheat because they saw it when they were younger. They saw it happening to someone in their family so they don’t think it is wrong and they do it too. It’s can also be that they are unhappy with their spouse. “Other top reasons men cheat? They’re unhappy with their mates - and extramarital sex is cheaper and easier to get these days, Buss says” (why men cheat) These are some reasons why men cheat on their spouses.

  


Work cited
9 reasons why men cheat, December 02/2012, 05/14/12 web lifescript.com/life/relationships/wreckage/6_reasons_why_men_cheat.aspx


1 comment:

  1. I like the way you integrated the academic research with your ideas about why men cheat.

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